Monday, November 13, 2017

Wesley [11 months]


The next time I blog I will have a ONE YEAR OLD! Eleven months has come so fast, and it simply does not feel like it's been nearly a year since this darling boy came into our lives. Wesley's addition to our family has been beyond a joy, and our love for him is insurmountable. I want to soak up these last few weeks of our baby's infancy and cherish every moment before he officially becomes a--gulp--toddler. That pill will be so hard for me to swallow, as I want this boy to be our little baby forever.

Size: Mr. Wesley has grown so much in spirit and not so much in actual size. Our daytime temperatures have finally cooled, so this boy has been getting to wear more of his cold weather apparel. He is wearing size 6 months pants, some 3 months/3-6 months and 6 months size onesies (and he can fit in 9 months depending on the brand), and infant size 3 shoes. We'll need to buy more cold weather footie pajamas and warm sweaters in 9 months to get him through the upcoming Winter season. His current diaper size remains the same.

Health: On our home scale Wesley still weighs 18.8 pounds, the same as last month. Teething is in full swing, as he's working on his upper molars. We took Simon to the dentist a few weeks ago, and the hygienist kindly added an infant toothbrush for Wesley to Simon's bag of oral care goodies at the end of our visit. Wesley loves using his new Winnie the Pooh toothbrush, I think because he gets to chew on and suck water off of the bristles. Simon absolutely loves that they share the ritual of brushing their teeth together at night before bedtime. Wesley's hair continues to grow and is showing some curl at the ends. Even though it looks pretty wild at times (and appears to reach the bottom of his neck when wet!), I'm going back and forth on whether we should really get it cut. He's got so much more hair than Simon did at this age, so maybe it's just Mommy whom isn't ready yet!

Feeding: I've been working hard to increase my hydration and taking supplements to help with my milk supply when pumping. I'm seeing some results, and I'm trying to fit in pumping time at home when time permits. Wesley wants to drink way more milk than I'm able to pump in a day, but I think we'll be able to manage with the few frozen milk bags I have left until his birthday when he can have almond milk. I'm told that he absolutely loves seeing that bottle when it makes its appearance, and he can hold it on his own--one handed!--and drink independently like a champ. Wesley has now mastered drinking from his sippy cup on its straw mode, which quickly led to him figuring out how to drink successfully from any straw. We learned this when in just one night we observed him grab both Simon's CamelBak bottle and my Hydro Flask with a straw lid and guzzle down a bunch of water like it was no thang. New foods that Wesley is eating and enjoying like crazy are cheese, apple sauce, mango, chicken, and scrambled eggs.

Sleep: Nighttime sleep improved temporarily and then took a turn for the worse. At the beginning of his eleventh month Wesley was waking a little less at night, sometimes only once or twice. With the onset of his upper molars coming in, our poor boy has been uncomfortable and easily stirred. My dad says that Wesley gets some late morning/early afternoon nap time in when they pick up Simon from preschool on Tuesdays and Thursdays. Wesley uses the car seat that Simon first used for daycare in Cho-Cho's car, and I'm happy he's able to sleep comfortably in it while riding.

Milestones: Wesley's pincer grasp is finely tuned with all the practice he's gotten with self-feeding, as we've noticed that he's an ace at picking up the tiniest of particles he finds on the floor. Everything from small leaves, pieces of plastic from tags, and even a single rice grain winds up in those little fingers and sometimes in that little mouth until we carefully fish it out before it's swallowed. Even though he primarily self-feeds, Wesley has also enjoyed being spoon-fed homemade applesauce (made for our recent visit to Apple Hill) and has recently tried handling the spoon to feed himself. I've also noticed that Wesley mostly understands the concept of pointing and will look in the direction of where we are gesturing rather than at our finger. Additionally, he sometimes helps with getting dressed by putting his arms in and taking them out of his shirt sleeves when appropriate.

Likes: While our silly boy will assist in dressing himself, he just loves to pull off his socks! They seem to make perfect play objects for Wesley, as his socks come off while playing at home and practically immediately after being buckled up in the car. Wesley also loves playing with his big brother's toys, and Simon is much obliged to share. Baby will crawl into Simon's room and go for the ball bin, the stuffed animal basket, and the very attractive bag of wooden blocks. While in the playroom together, Wesley likes to sit aside Brother while Simon builds with Lego Duplos, whom will in turn provide a few captivating blocks for Wesley to play with nearby. When we play together in his room Wesley loves to play the stacking game with Mommy, where I count and stack as many of his One Two Squeeze blocks as I can before he excitedly knocks them over. He's also grown to really love Pat-a-Cake even more and enjoys grabbing my hands and making me clap them together.

Dislikes: We may have reverted back to hating baths. Wesley hasn't let us sit him in his baby tub for a while, so we're holding him in the shower again. He's getting too heavy for me to carry for long periods of time, so when it's my turn to take him in the shower I end up sitting on the floor and letting Wesley sit or lie cradled in my lap. He seems to tolerate that just fine, as long as I don't try to get him to sit on the shower floor himself. Wesley's still not a fan of the nighttime diaper changes and is no help to Daddy when needing to get those stubborn feet back into his jammies. 

Social: I'm pretty much convinced that Daddy is Wesley's favorite person. This boy lights up in a way that he doesn't with anyone else when Eric comes home from work. I will ask, "Do you want to go see Daddy?" and a huge smile will erupt across Wesley's face accompanied with either looking around for Eric or starting to crawl away from me to find him. The two of them have developed their own little social interaction of lifting their heads, pursing their lips and humming. They do this back and forth several times a day, and watching it is so hilarious! Wesley is signing MORE very clearly and has a more discriminate sign for MILK that I'm starting to see a little more frequently. It sometimes sounds like Wesley is trying to say MORE when he signs it and EAT after I sign it to him. We wonder if he is trying to communicate his hunger to us when he crawls over to his high chair and uses it to pull himself up into a standing position. Once standing, he grunts a lot and loudly taps on the high chair's footrest. When we respond by asking if he wants to eat, he smiles and babbles and happily allows us to buckle him in and waits for us to prepare a snack. Wesley is saying "Mama" and "Dada" a lot more often, but again he says it just to say it instead of calling us by name. He is getting lots of practice with repeating sounds that we make, so I'm sure he'll be talking away before we know it. Peek-a-boo is still Wesley's most favorite game to play with us, and he understands that when I say "Where's Mama?" that means to look for me hiding under the blanket without me needing to model the game first.

Other Updates: With Fall officially in full swing, we spent the last month enjoying many of our favorite regular Fall activities with Wesley for the first time. We joined our big group of friends for a trip up to Apple Hill and had fun playing and visiting in the nice weather. At The Pumpkin Farm we pulled the boys around in our wagon and picked out pumpkins, watched Simon play on the tower slides, found our way through the corn maze, and took Wesley on his first hay ride. For the first time I was able to volunteer at the 2nd annual ASL Harvest Carnival for Deaf, Hard of Hearing, and Hearing families learning American Sign Language at William Jessup University. I helped with set up and assisted at the information table, and Eric brought the boys to visit and play the carnival games. A few of Simon's friends from preschool were in attendance with their families, so he had a ball hanging out with them. Wesley spent most of the time just taking in the sights, but it was so special for me to be able to share my time in volunteering in this community with my family. We were also decked out in our Halloween costumes, so it was really exciting being in our first coordinated costume as a family of four!

 cutie in a shopping cart

brushing teeth

 one handed bottle skills

grocery store nap

hard at play

 smiles for Mommy

brotherly love

High Hill Ranch at Apple Hill

 The Pumpkin Farm

 our pumpkins ready to go

our family costume at the Harvest Carnival 

 Mommy's littlest minion

Monday, October 23, 2017

Wesley [10 months]


The Big Double Digits! Okay, he's still technically in the single digits being under the age of one, but 10 months feels so huge! I am filled with mixed emotions about getting closer to Wesley's first birthday and thus the end of babyhood; part of me is excited for the next chapter, and the other part of me feels so much sadness already missing the days of my littlest baby being a baby. We are in love with this child beyond measure and continue to enjoy so many warm and bright moments watching him learn and explore the world.

Size: I swear, I've been repeating the same thing for months; Wesley is still wearing the same size in clothing and diapers. I'm getting bored with this kid's wardrobe! It was a challenge to find something for him to wear for his 10 month photo that he hasn't already worn, especially since he turned 10 months old on a 90 degree day. Either Wesley needs to grow, or the weather needs to change! I did get to dive into his 6 month cool weather clothing once more for our trip to Tahoe, and I bought him a new pair of dress shoes in an infant size 3. Still... I'm ready for the weather to cool down so I can dress this boy in some new and different outfits.

Health: At 10 months Wesley weighs 18.8 pounds on our home scale, which is 5.7 ounces less than his weight at 9 months. Eric and I have noticed that Wesley looks like he's thinned out a bit and has lost some of the baby fat he had prior to becoming so mobile. Our little one had a fever early this month that came and went over the course of three days. It wasn't fun feeling his scorching hot body, and we hated seeing how miserable he felt. We provided Tylenol and cooled him off in the shower, and the fever eventually ran its course. I wonder if he was fighting off a bug, because Simon began having similar symptoms days later on a much worse scale. Thankfully both boys are now happy and fever-free. Wesley is healthy and continues to thrive beautifully. Eric and I are discussing taking Wesley for his first haircut soon to take care of his long, wispy locks that are becoming out of control!

Feeding: My hydration hasn't been great over the last month, leading me to believe that it may be having a result on my milk supply. My pumping output has decreased slightly, and Wesley has been at times fussier than usual while nursing. With food, Wesley is an absolute monster! He understands and gets really excited when we sign EAT, and sometimes we can't get his meal onto his high chair tray fast enough. New foods Wesley has experienced over the course of the last two months are: sweet potato, steamed and stemless broccoli and cauliflower, strawberries, skinless cucumber and sweet red pepper, steamed carrots, Happy Baby Puffs, apples (softened), watermelon, peeled grapes, cantaloupe, and milk-free pancakes. The pancakes came back up a short while after eating them, so I'm wondering if the mixed-in egg was too raw for his tummy.

Sleep: Wesley continues to wake two to three times during the night. Eric and I are still stumped as to whether it's a result of teething (no new teeth have shown for a while) or some kind of sleep regression. At this rate Wesley remains in our bed, since it doesn't make sense to me to transition him into his crib if he's still waking frequently. He's more of a night owl some evenings, being totally awake for hours with lots of energy to move and crawl everywhere. We sometimes struggle to keep him contained, because we're typically tired early and have to wait for Wesley to get tired before we can go to bed. I've been lucky that Wesley generally sleeps really well while I get ready for work in the morning. I use the baby monitor, perched upon our bed's headboard, to keep an eye and ear on Baby if I'm away in the kitchen making breakfast, packing lunch, etc.

Milestones: Our smart, little cookie has such a great memory. He still loves to play with things he shouldn't have, like our cell phones and remotes. If we try to distract Wesley while hiding those items from view, he manages to remember where they are and find them later when we mistakenly think he's forgotten. Wesley has also mastered clapping, which I've casually been modeling for him for months when giving him praise. He now claps along with us and does so with a huge smile on his face. Wesley is now riding in style in his new convertible car seat in each of Mommy and Daddy's cars. We chose the Graco Extend2Fit, which caught my eye due to its high rear-facing weight limit of 50 pounds and its phenomenal review from Car Seats for the Littles. We scored one from Babies "R" Us on sale and with a 25% off coupon and another from Target with a 20% off trade-in coupon stacked with a 15% off Cartwheel deal. Major savings!

Likes: This boy finally likes the bath! We experimented a few times last month when Wesley experienced curiosity while watching Simon playing in the bathtub. Wesley leaned his little body so far over the edge of the tub that he could have made his way in on his own if I hadn't been right there with him. I put him in the big tub with Big Brother, but it was just too spacious and slippery for my comfort. I later got the idea to sit Wesley in his baby tub on the floor of the shower since he's been so comfortable with both playing in the tub on the floor of his room and being in the shower water with Daddy. Wesley has had an absolute ball doing this, finally enjoying the ability to splash around and play with his toys. He even let us take him in a heated pool on Labor Day and in the big spa bathtub in our hotel room with Eric and Simon when we were in Lake Tahoe. We're so happy to finally have that water-loving baby we've been waiting for!

Dislikes: I'm thinking that Wesley still may be suffering from some separation anxiety. He sometimes still clings to me for a period of time after I get home and can become very upset if I can't hold him for as long as he wants. I love that he loves Mommy, but I don't want him becoming upset when he realizes that I've been away.

Social: Wesley is finally babbling "mamamamamama," but we're not yet convinced that he's said his first word. His "mamas" more frequently occur when he is upset, but he doesn't say it when he sees me. For now it's just an arbitrary noise that he's figured out how to make, but it is fun to pretend that he's saying something that he actually might mean. Wesley also continues to be comfortable and cuddly with various people and flashes that flirty smile easily and sweetly. Simon loves to play with his little brother so much, and Wesley seems to feel the same way. They laugh and scream together, and Simon enjoys coming up with games for them to play and building forts for them to hide. When Eric comes home from work, Wesley always greets Daddy with an enormous and happy grin and excitedly reaches out for Daddy to pick him up. Our silly, little bear has also learned how to give a high-five from practicing with Cho-Cho. He joyfully swings up that cute hand every time!

Other Updates: A major change occurred in our home this month: our boys stopped going to daycare. My dad is now taking care of the boys five days a week, which has really helped with our finances. It's been less stressful needing to get both of them ready in the mornings, with the exception of Simon's preschool days. Sometimes Wesley doesn't wake up before I leave for work, and I'm glad that he now has that opportunity to sleep longer in the morning. Our big fun for the month was going to Lake Tahoe for Kylee's wedding. We were able to stay in South Lake Tahoe for free thanks to my sweet friend with whom I worked at Iron Mountain, Michelle, generously offering her timeshare to us for the wedding weekend. Our family of four stayed for two nights and mostly spent our time relaxing since there had been snow in Tahoe the day before we arrived, and the daytime temperatures were barely reaching a high of 50 degrees. The wedding was wonderful, although both boys were a little cranky from not getting enough nap time (and Simon was still recovering from the side effects of his fever). All in all, it was so fun to get away as a family again and relax in a new place. We will be back in Tahoe again for another wedding in January, so hopefully then we will get to enjoy some bundled-up fun in the snow!

looking and acting more grown up everyday!

someone loves to stay hydrated

snacking on watermelon with Brother

cozy morning sleeper

 big boy car seat excitement

 hotel bath tub fun

Mommy cuddles

 The Batmen

 Kylee's wedding

zonked out with Daddy

beautiful South Lake Tahoe

Wednesday, September 20, 2017

Wesley [9 months]


Happy 9 months to Wesley Woo! This beautiful boy is growing by leaps and bounds. He continues to be a super happy baby, a strong lover of our family, and a hilarious munchkin with a developing personality. During his ninth month, Mommy and Daddy spent our first night away from Wesley to attend and participate in Uncle Brett's wedding. I didn't leave Simon overnight until he was much older, but Eric and I felt confident that Wesley and Simon would be in capable hands with Cho-Cho. Wesley ate and slept well while we were gone just over 24 hours, and he was quite thrilled when we returned home. Aside from some brief malfunctions with my pump and one too many glasses of champagne, I really enjoyed our short night away and felt good about getting to spend some much-deserved quality time alone with Eric. Now to share more about our ninth month with Wesley!

Size: Our love is again still wearing onesies sized between 3 and 6 months. His adorably chunky thunder thighs no longer fit into 6 month sized shorts, so those items have been retired to the "Too Small" box. I pulled out shorts in the next size up (12 months!), and those fit great over our cloth diapers. I also pulled out 6 month winter clothing for our camping trip to the ocean, and the long sleeve onesies, pants, and footie pajamas were a perfect fit.

Health: At his 9 month well baby appointment Wesley weighed 19 pounds, 2.5 ounces (38th percentile) and measured 29.5 inches tall (87th percentile). He's lost about an ounce in weight in the last month, which our pediatrician said is normal since many 9 month old babies are constantly on the move and weight gain begins to taper off at this age. Eric and I have been suspicious of more teething, even though a new pearly white has yet to make its appearance. We suspect this due to Wesley recently being plagued with LOTS of drool, much of which he ingested. Swallowing so much drool created some interesting looking diapers with green, mucous-like qualities. This initially freaked us out, but a quick trip back to the doctor ruled that it wasn't a cause for concern. On a more attractive note, I'm pretty confident that our baby's beautiful baby blues are unarguably here to stay, and our goldie locks is sporting some cute, wispy hair as it grows longer on the sides and more full in the back.

Feeding: Wesley's been fussy with latching lately, due to either being overtired or distracted. At times his repeated latching and unlatching has been painful, so I've needed to briefly end the nursing session in order for us to both relax to start over. I found a new-to-us high chair on Facebook Marketplace in amazing condition for a great price, and the 5-point harness and cushioned insert provide the right support Wesley needs to successfully sit up straight to eat. He's working on developing his pincer grasp with all the practice he's gotten with self feeding and picking up small pieces of food. Just like his brother, Wesley is a shover and loves to grab handfuls of food to cram into his mouth all at once. We watch closely, and Wesley is good at managing his gag reflex to force excess food out of his mouth before swallowing. It isn't much of a surprise that he's super motivated by food; this quality seems to run in the family!

Sleep: Daytime sleep has settled into a pretty general routine of about two naps a day on average. Wesley is still taking a late morning nap, which is most often the longer one, and another nap in the mid to late afternoon. He continues to wake two to three times during the night with more restless sleep here and there. The use of our teething oil is very helpful some nights, and other nights he completely refuses to let us apply it. The best sleep Wesley experienced this month was, surprisingly, during his first camping trip to Bodega Bay. He slept most of the car ride there and back, passed out in the Tula during a walk on the beach, dozed cozily and soundly during the night between Eric and me in our double sleeping bag, and even napped in the arms of a couple of our friends. If only we could travel more often to get him to sleep so well!

Milestones: This boy is still crawling like crazy and using anything and everything to pull himself up into a standing position. He has his daredevil moments when he'll stand using only one hand to support his balance, frequently scaring the bejesus out of Mommy. Wesley is understanding the meaning of some cause and effect relationships. He's learned that if he lets go of an object, it will fall to the floor. Sometimes if he lets go with force, the object will travel further away. Mommy and Daddy have a limit of how many times we're willing to pick up said dropped or thrown object, and thankfully Wesley has yet to figure this out. He's also mastered a new level of peek-a-boo and loves to pull the blanket off of our heads to reveal a silly-faced Mommy or Daddy, which incites lots of giggles.

Likes: Simon helped me transition toys between the playroom and his bedroom so that his big boy toys (AKA choking hazards) are safely housed in the privacy of his own room, and the playroom is composed of only baby-friendly toys with which they can play separately or together. I moved in the activity table from Wesley's bedroom, and he's finally gotten really interested in it and enjoys playing alongside his brother. Everything still finds its way into Wesley's mouth - Lego Duplos, play dishes/utensils/tools, etc., and paper when Mommy isn't fast enough! Let's just say that Baby successfully bit off and swallowed a piece of a candy wrapper, but I was able to get him to cough it back up and spit it out.

Dislikes: I've noticed that Wesley has become very sensitive to my mood. If I have to yell at the dog (or Simon, unfortunately - I'm human and there isn't such a thing as perfect parenting), Wesley's immediate response is to burst into tears. His crying is very brief and he stops the moment I use a calming voice to soothe him, and I of course feel awful for making him upset. I'm not sure if this response is triggered by fear (of me raising my voice), or if Wesley thinks he's the one being scolded. He's also back to hating being buckled into his car seat. He is close to reaching the maximum height limit for his infant car seat, so he will be transitioning to a brand new convertible car seat soon.

Social: Summer Break ended during Wesley's ninth month, signifying my time to go back to work. He began going to daycare at Kara's house five days a week, three of those days with Simon (whom started preschool two days a week). Prior to my first day back I feared that Wesley would suffer from some separation anxiety since I'd been home with him every day for two months, and I ended up being right. It took some time for him to re-familiarize with Kara again, his shyness and sensitive temperament occurring mostly in the morning. Soon thereafter he'd feel comfortable exploring the toys and watching the older kids with amusement. At home, Wesley's social behavior with communication and body language continues to blossom. He sometimes looks like he's trying to sign MILK, and he seems to be beginning to understand my new signs (accompanied with my voice) EAT and MORE. He's also finally in the early stages of real babble with a consonant sound, which is coming out as a "babababa." Wesley's getting quite the reputation for now being a snuggler, as he was very open and comfortable cuddling with several of our friends during our aforementioned camping trip. Our favorite forms of affection that he's now showing Eric and me are head butting with love (he does it very gently) and open-mouth, sloppy kisses on the cheek.

Other Updates: As mentioned multiple times, we went camping for the first time as a family of four! We once again joined the celebration for Levi and Jeff's birthdays, this year spending three days and two nights at Lawson's Landing at Dillon Beach. Courage came with us this year, just as he did for Simon's first camping trip. The five of us fit comfortably in our new 8-person tent, which will still provide plenty of space in the years to come when Wesley may want to share an air mattress with Simon instead of with Mommy and Daddy. Both boys got playtime in with the other kids on the trip: Lilly; Allison; Kinlee and her brother, Anthony; and Owen, Eric and Meko's baby. Wesley had the cutest avocado dinner date with Miss Allie, socialized with practically every single one of our friends (we were a group of over thirty), and shared toys and showed off his crawling and standing skills in the 'baby tent' enclosed for the littles. He seriously was in the best mood the entire trip, and was the best traveler I could have imagined. I'm now looking forward to our next getaway together as a family--Lake Tahoe for the wedding of my friend, Kylee!

 our big guy!

 
sitting well on the scale at the doctor

new high chair

silliest nap ever

daredevil standing in the cosleeper

loving his activity table

almost too big for his car seat

first day back at daycare

camping dinner date with Allison

a total cuddle bug

our family at Bodega Bay

Tuesday, August 29, 2017

Wesley [8 months]


This happy, playful, lovable boy is 8 months old! This is my 8th monthly blog post for our darling Wesley, which means that I only have 4 left to go. Although time has surely gotten away from me over the summer, and I surprisingly found it MORE difficult to write while off from work, a part of me feels like I won't know what to do with myself (or this blog) after Wesley turns one. I still can't even imagine him becoming an entire year old, plus the fact that I've already begun actively planning his first birthday party. It will all be here before we know it, leaving me with the desire to just slow time if only in the slightest bit. I will pause the pity party for now and go on to sharing about our time during Baby Bear's 8th month.

Size: Our big boy is so big, yet I suspect he hasn't grown much in the last month. He still fits into 3 month, 3-6 month, and 6 month sized onesies. Our bigger 6 month bodysuits remain too baggy, and I don't think we've recently retired any items to the "Too Small" box. The weather has been hot, so there have been many days that Wesley has rocked only a diaper while hanging out at home. He's in a size 3 when wearing disposables, and we haven't needed to adjust his cloth diaper size since last month.

Health: On our home scale Wesley's weight shows 19.2 pounds. He added 2 new teeth to his collection this month (lower lateral incisors), making a total of 8 pearly white chompers. His poor, perfect baby face has been the recent landscape to lots of new boo boos and ouchies, since our little guy is officially on the move. I've hated seeing him develop little bruises as a result of the falls he takes on our hard wood and tile floors due to his desire to go everywhere and get onto everything. Wesley was looking like quite the tough guy showing up to one of Eric's hockey games with his first black eye and evidence of his first bloody nose. This definitely hasn't been my favorite stage of babyhood, and my heart has just ached with every accident this sweet little boy has experienced.

Feeding: Wesley is still nursing on demand successfully. Night feedings remain short, and daytime feedings are closer together in the morning and further apart in the afternoon and evening. The new solid foods we introduced to Wesley this month include banana, plum, and a brief taste of nectarine. He is very eager to eat and is immediately interested in any food he sees. We have to be extra careful while eating our own meals with Baby close by; those curious, little fingers will quickly make their way onto your plate before you know it. I've had to pry pieces of food out of Wesley's hands in order to keep him from ingesting things he isn't yet ready for. I'm excited for him to expand his palate when the time is right and his system catches up to the recent changes in his diet (hence the need for plums, if you know what I mean).

Sleep: The new teeth that Wesley grew in brought us back to waking every 3 hours during the night. Most often he'd go back to sleep easily after a quick nursing session, but there have been nights that he's been restless and thrashed about the bed and needing to nurse more for comfort. Teething also caused lots of daytime fussiness, so Wesley started napping more often with Cho-Cho. Baby created his own schedule of needing a late morning nap and sometimes one in the afternoon, depending on how long he slept in the morning. I've noticed that Wesley has become a lighter sleeper at home and will wake easily at noise caused by Simon, the animals, and loud talking. Thankfully, Wesley will still sleep in the car and typically wakes happily after doing so.

Milestones: That's right, Wesley is officially crawling! He was super close to this huge milestone last month, so we knew that it was only a matter of time before this guy would be on the move. The day Wesley first crawled was July 3, an independent mover just in time for Independence Day. He's become a skilled crawler pretty quickly and enjoys the freedom to go wherever he pleases. Wesley is so strong and coordinated enough to pull himself up into a standing position on just about anything, and he also likes to cruise along the furniture and get his little hands into everything. He can support himself while sitting much better now, and he even sat in a restaurant high chair for the first time when we went out to Yard House for Jen's birthday. Wesley has also sat in the front of a shopping cart with our shopping cart cover, being entertained by the new sights available from the new position.

Likes: Baby loves the animals so much. He tries to play with Courage and Riley's tails every chance he gets, even after being told no and pulled away multiple times. Courage doesn't seem to care too much and will just move if he wants to be left alone, but Riley is not a fan and is losing his patience with Wesley's persistence. Wesley is also fond of getting into the basket of cat toys, as well as snacking on Courage's Nylabone whenever he finds it laying around. Adding to the list of inappropriate things that Wesley likes to chew are my phone, the remote, and our bamboo drink coasters. And for some reason, his absolute favorite chew items of all are straps. Whether it be from the high chair, car seat, or changing pad, that strap will find its way into Wesley's mouth in no time at all.

Dislikes: Wesley will get super upset not being in the same room as us if we need to go into the next room for just a moment while he's in his Jumperoo. He does not like to think he's been left alone, and will cry unhappily until you "reappear." Similarly, he will leave the room he is in to come find Mommy if he wants to be with me instead of in the room where he had been happily playing with someone else (Simon, Eric, etc.). On a positive note, Wesley's baby bath tub has been in his room since he refused to use it, and Simon got the idea to pretend that the tub is a boat and got Wesley to crawl in and play with toys. He really likes climbing in and out and can do so with ease, and I gave Wesley lots of praise to show him that the tub isn't scary. Wesley has also allowed us to dip his toes into the water at the lake and at home in our inflatable pool in the backyard, and he even enjoyed sitting on my lap in the pool with his feet in the water. I'm wondering if he's becoming more comfortable with water, which will hopefully lead to future bath time fun in the tub with all our fun toys!

Social: This social butterfly constantly shares his silly smile all the time. Wesley scrunches his nose and shows his teeth, and the expression immediately has Eric and me in stitches. Baby has his own version of what I call "happy feet" when he's excited to see Mommy or Daddy or is enjoying getting a person's attention. While being held, Wesley's happy feet come to life when he bounces his hanging legs up and down as if almost mimicking the motion of being in one of his jumpers. Wesley's babble has yet to advance beyond his "ugh" grunts of approval or acknowledgement, but he does respond to and understand when I say and/or sign MILK and sign ALL DONE. His response to ALL DONE during diaper changes is dropping whatever he's chewing on and adorably reaching up to me to pick him up. Signing and asking Wesley if he's ready for MILK results in either an excited yelp or an impatient wail as he fumbles around trying to get into my shirt.

Other Updates: July was a jam-packed month full of so many fun summer activities. We celebrated the 4th of July at our house and invited Uncle Boom Boom and Lilly over for swimming and barbecuing. Wesley watched in awe while the big kids danced around with sparklers and the dads lit our larger fireworks. The kids and I took a day trip with Cho-Cho to San Francisco. We hung out at Pier 39 and had lunch, visited Aquarium of the Bay, enjoyed the view of the water, and had an ice cream treat. Wesley slept most of the time, but he was great during the whole trip. I took the littles to open play at Simon's gymnastics center, where Marcy and Bailey joined us for fun on the big trampoline, the foam pit, and the special just-for-summer bounce house slide. It was cool getting to play on all of the equipment that Simon uses during class, and Wesley had so much fun crawling around on the squishy mats and sitting in the foam pit while watching Big Brother show off his big jumps. As a family we went to Folsom Lake for Uncle Joe and Aunt Cherise's baby shower for their daughter, Abigael. It was a very hot day, but I was so surprised that both of the boys liked the water as much as they did. Our other family outing was to the State Fair. We had a wonderful time looking at the exhibits (Expedition Dinosaur--14 dinosaur animatronics in-action-- was Daddy and Simon's favorite), petting the livestock, and splurging on the food. Eric bought a Dole Whip for us to share, and even Wesley got a taste! It's definitely been a season to remember as our first summer shared with our little Wesley Woo.

Mommy's big boy

Poor baby's first eye boo boo

trying banana

silly sleeper

 standing on everything

first restaurant high chair!

first time going to Daddy's hockey game

in pool with Mommy?

cool babies

4th of July baby

Mommy, boys & Cho-Cho at Pier 39 

in the foam pit at the gym

Folsom Lake

avocados at the fair